after yet another disappointing, and numbing feeling from yet another 'egoist' disguised as the stereotypical 'nice guy', I have decided that the earlier mindset of quick dismissal (once convinced) is the best route. Anything more, indulgence especially, leads to confusion, unitended signals and the lessened meaning of the word ' No'. We then end up living in a world of ambiguity where false hope seems to appear on an irregular basis.